Are you ? Do you consider yourself a victim of your circumstances – be it your health, wealth, or lac of it, or your culture or your government, or your education or the unfair pressure from your family to do something that your heart does not agree to, or, worse, your spouse or your younger brother or your mother, who, you know cares for you but always irritates you , push-your-buttons so to speak ?
Well, whenever or if ever you feel like a victim, and you cannot stop blaming someone out there for your problems, WAKE UP ! ! Wake up to who or what you are ! Remember, you are an ultimate magician with un-told powers to create your dreams effortlessly !
You know, that friend of yours who seems to have a special knack to always end up irritating you, effortlessly, easily, you, my friend, you assigned that role, that character to him to play in your life’s script.
HOW ? – by your belief about him to be like that. If you can change YOUR belief about him, I assure you he will change, his behavior will change. Trust me,
WHY ?- because you needed that experience, because you needed to become aware of YOUR reactions before you could evolve to the next higher dimension of Awareness. Yes, sometimes, it is very difficult to accept the truth and feel genuine gratitude for your incessantly irritating friend for the role he played in your evolution and mentally embrace him with unconditional love.
Actually, the circumstance that surrounds you is a reflection of YOUR beliefs, thoughts and expectations. Tufti, the priestess (from the book with the same name by Vadim Zeland) expresses this fact very succinctly. She tells her students to stand in front of a mirror and ask – “Give me love. Give me respect. Give me…give me…give me…Now what does your reflection from the mirror do ? – Yes, he also asks – “Give me love. Give me respect….give me… give me…. ! ”
Tufti, the priestess continues and says if you want something from someone out there, you need to give it first, stand in front of the mirror and say – “Here, take it. Here take it…….” And the reflection from the mirror will also say – “Here take it. Here, take it…….” . The lesson – If you want love, give love ( love the other first), if you want appreciation, you appreciate the other first… and so forth.
Watch your thoughts and beliefs that silently create and control your circumstances and so, your life. If you find your thoughts and beliefs do not match your integrity or your own code of honor, replace them with something loving, something good for the other !
Expect miracles my magicians !
Thanks. It’s really helpful